It’s not true that this past year has completely changed me, but it most certainly is true that I’ve stood at the threshold of complete change, that I’ve been brought to the brink of complete change. In order to understand me — not necessarily male chastity, or submissiveness, or anything except how those things apply to me and my life with J, you have to understand the following principles we’ve come to embrace, and, tentatively, subtly, espouse to others. Please don’t take anything here personally or as an invitation to an argument. I can only speak for me, and how J and I are growing in our relationship. Also, please don’t get the idea we’ve sat around and hashed out the wording of this. This is all merely my thinking. A man in a cricket does a lot of thinking.
1. Women are superior to men: intellectually, physically, spiritually, emotionally. At first this idea held only erotic attraction to me, but the more I thought about it, the more apparent it became to me, and I now consider it to be a general truth.
2. In any relationship between a man and a woman, the natural place for the man is in subservience to the woman. In a marriage, the woman should as a general matter be acknowledged as the dominant partner, and the man’s role is to accommodate her needs and desires.
3. Orgasm control is essential for the healthy sexual expression of principles 1 and 2. A man’s unfettered access to his own penis is cancer to his personal relationships.
4. Men are unable to control themselves regarding their own orgasm, and require a woman’s control in order to abstain from masturbating.
5. Without orgasm control, a man’s thoughts and desires are unmoored and scattered. With it, his focus remains constant and unyielding on the goal of continually pleasing the woman who controls him. The dynamic of orgasm control is healthy, natural and beautiful.
6. A man’s resistance to the principles set forth above is rooted in arrogance. The current standard cultural definition of masculinity is profoundly flawed, and is a product of the insecure arrogance of men.
7. A woman’s loving humiliation of her husband, including but not limited to the use of a chastity device, will over time act as an antidote to his arrogance. Masculinity is an illusion waiting to be defined by you.
8. A chastity device is a symbol of fidelity, a reminder of submissiveness, an expression of love, and a piece of decorative jewelry. It shouldn’t be forgotten that all of this is fun and erotic and hot and beautiful and lasting and real.
TELL HER TODAY: I did a little more than a year ago, and guess what?
HAPPINESS
(details as all this applies to us here and now to follow)
(cricketed)
There are probably as many reasons to embrace male chastity as there are adherents to the cause. Your reasons may not all be my reasons, and vice-versa. Doesn’t matter. What matters is that everyone involved enjoy the benefits they receive from it. You and J obviously do, so that’s all that’s important.
j,
I’m with Billius on this. – Whatever works is best. It may not be what works for me, but so what? The Internet is a menu to take what you will away with you. Thanks for adding to the variety of the feast.
Continued good luck
ptathuk
Happiness is indeed in her hands.We should endeavour to let women re difine what it is to be masculine.By allowing only our partner to touch and play with our penis and balls we have to enter into a conversation and communication wirth her in order for us to experience pleasure togehter at one of its heights.
Communicating how she can increase our pleasure whilst in her hands means telling her how certain sensations and rythms and speeds feel.She will want to fulfill her man and will want to feel fulfilled knowing how much pleasure she can bestow and how much power she has to bestow it or withdraw it.
Male Female relations are going to be more and more determined by Womyn.Stewrdship of relationships and society is better handled when a Womyn is in charge.
But above all it means the selfless persuit of pleasing her and what makes her world easier and more pleasant.
I have to say that you have exquisite taste in photographs. Cricketed — please don’t think it goes unnoticed.
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